overcoming hurt

how do you get over a pain so you can also get on with your life, move on, recover? to forgive is easy but it's NEVER easy to forget right? when you haven't forgotten does that mean you're still hurting?

im in a stage in my life where past hurts are slowly turning me to a cynical, bitter, lonely person. i may show a happy facade but inside im slowly dying. pag mag-isa ko sa bahay bigla na lang ako iiyak ng walang kaabog-abog. feeling ko nga minsan masyado na kong nagiging drama princess.

can you blame me then if i start to hate and blame the people who have hurt me for turning me into this person. read this artik: http://peyups.com/article.khtml?sid=3673
ganda. naka-relate ako.